Staying Strong [Part I]
Human
We humans tend to make mistakes all the time. We humans are never perfect. But somehow, we're perfect in our own ways. And what people always say; perfectly imperfect. Right? That's good. Keep it that way. In this world, there are a lot of different types of people. One can be such an egoistic, hot-tempered, calm, patient, loving, kind, strong-minded, weak, too insecure, or even caring. Yea count in all those others too. There's a lot types. I can't list them all here, can I? But those type of attitude I wrote there, is the most common one that you'll be able to find. No kidding.
And I've met all those kinds. Here's what I think about these two;
Egoistic:
They don't want to admit their mistakes. Cos they always think they're right in whatever they do. They think it's alright to hurt other cos think its cool or maybe because they don't even think they're in the wrong. Like whenever there is a argument between two person, and both of them sulking, one just had to sacrifice their emotions and put it aside just so you can see the other party happy. Well another reason for that is because you wanna save the friendship or relationship you guys had. I bet you don't wanna waste that right? Someone who wants others to prioritize them for everything. To take care of their feelings and gives no shit to others. Someone who thinks their advice or preaching is the best in the world. I've met them. It takes a lot of patience to handle them. But yea, everyone has their own egos. Some has HUGE egos. Some are 50-50 ego. And some has very small egos. It depends though. Some people are weird. Their egos are based on people's attitude. While others are different.
Strong-minded:
To those that has strong soul in them, I respect you all. They are some who can really handle the society well. They can't even let their haters get into them or affect their lives. That's good! These people literally has all kinds of personality in them. Like they have care, kindness, loving, bitchy attitude, even egos and etc... a lot. There are more to... ''treasure happiness'' kind rather than seeing themselves being sad or dramatic. Cos they themselves know that if they were to be like that, the part hurt and cries come into the picture... And they know its just gonna make things worse in a sec. I find that they're very very patient. That's the most important thing. Patience. They don't care what other might have to say. They know what's best for themselves and what drives them to their own happiness. They don't need to depend on others to be happy too. Basically, they can stand on their own.
These people are the only ones that I only find it very common in people nowadays. I'll explain it to you;
First of all, Yes people make so many mistakes till they think that there's not even a room for improvement. Yes I feel you. You'll feel like there's too much sins and then you think back that is no point to ask for forgiveness cause you know its like kinda too late. But whatever religions you guys believed in, you know He'll always be the all-most forgiving. And again, its actually never too late :) There are people who suffers a lot of problems. Be it facing difficulty with their own health or handling their own depressions. Yet these people now are still standing strong and are happy with whatever they have now. If they can make it, why can't you? I'm sure you can. There's no impossibilities out there. Its all about how you perceive things around you and how you treat them like.
It may not be easy. Or like some of you all would say; '' Its never easy. Easier said than done''. But don't be blinded by what those negative thoughts have come across you. Don't let them weaken your soul and easily take them away. Leading you to such drainage. Its not even worth it. Don't ever follow your ego by only listening to yourself where all those bad thoughts can control you. Like for example; bulimia/eating disorder or anorexia.
Those little devils who controls you where they quietly whispering to you not to eat and starve yourself. So you can be skinny enough just so you can please others with your ''new'' look. Life out here, isn't supposed to be pleased. You can never please them well enough as they thought you would be. No. Just so you can attract guys attention? Just so you'll look good if you tryna lose weight by starvation? checking your weight each and every other days to see if you've reached your ''goals'' or ''expectations''. They are proper ways out there to lose weight or to look good right?
I'm not saying that its not wrong to do all these. I know its the only way for you. And you've got no choice.. But it pains me to see you guys had to do it the ''suffering'' way. Where you can do it the healthy way... And as for depression.... hah.
All of these depressions can just simply lead to doing self-harm. And I know that shit like that gonna happen cause I've done it before too. And I tell you, its not easy as you think when you're tryna handling them. Cause these depressions can really lead to dangerous and risky path. Where until instant deaths and suicidal thoughts can come in and attack you. It can happen anytime. And especially when you're at you're lowest. Even when you're at the point where your wires are ''tripped''. And playing with these depressing thoughts is not funny. Its scary. One minute you can only think to harm yourself. But if get's worse? Their most simple solution is to be dead. Nothing more to say. I'm in love with people who has been trying hard to stay alive in their lives. Fighting to end their pains and sorrows away desperately. How inspiring can they be? It took them alot of courage to do it. And also most importantly; patience. Where that is the key to every happiness. Some people keep asking me "how can you tolerate these types of problems so well?'' // ''how can you still be happy even though things are rough for you?'' // ''How can you stay up strong as ever as days goes by despite all the challenges?'' And all I answer was;
Patience and Positive thinking.
These are the most important thing that you'll ever need in your life. Nothing more. All is simple. But it takes alot of thinking and hardships to be patient all times. A lot of people step on our heads and make use of them and go happy. And worse? Act like nothing happened. How did I managed to stay off strong? Just simply put yourself in others shoes. Be patient always. Don't keep looking on the pain that people have caused you.Think about the consequences. Everything happens for a reason. And also, there's karma who can do the job for you. What goes around comes around. You don't have to go around taking revenge on people. Weak people revenge. Strong people forgive. Intelligent people ignore. Plus, its not worth it. Why hurt others where in the end you'll hurt yourself instead? right?
Strong-minded:
To those that has strong soul in them, I respect you all. They are some who can really handle the society well. They can't even let their haters get into them or affect their lives. That's good! These people literally has all kinds of personality in them. Like they have care, kindness, loving, bitchy attitude, even egos and etc... a lot. There are more to... ''treasure happiness'' kind rather than seeing themselves being sad or dramatic. Cos they themselves know that if they were to be like that, the part hurt and cries come into the picture... And they know its just gonna make things worse in a sec. I find that they're very very patient. That's the most important thing. Patience. They don't care what other might have to say. They know what's best for themselves and what drives them to their own happiness. They don't need to depend on others to be happy too. Basically, they can stand on their own.
These people are the only ones that I only find it very common in people nowadays. I'll explain it to you;
First of all, Yes people make so many mistakes till they think that there's not even a room for improvement. Yes I feel you. You'll feel like there's too much sins and then you think back that is no point to ask for forgiveness cause you know its like kinda too late. But whatever religions you guys believed in, you know He'll always be the all-most forgiving. And again, its actually never too late :) There are people who suffers a lot of problems. Be it facing difficulty with their own health or handling their own depressions. Yet these people now are still standing strong and are happy with whatever they have now. If they can make it, why can't you? I'm sure you can. There's no impossibilities out there. Its all about how you perceive things around you and how you treat them like.
It may not be easy. Or like some of you all would say; '' Its never easy. Easier said than done''. But don't be blinded by what those negative thoughts have come across you. Don't let them weaken your soul and easily take them away. Leading you to such drainage. Its not even worth it. Don't ever follow your ego by only listening to yourself where all those bad thoughts can control you. Like for example; bulimia/eating disorder or anorexia.
Those little devils who controls you where they quietly whispering to you not to eat and starve yourself. So you can be skinny enough just so you can please others with your ''new'' look. Life out here, isn't supposed to be pleased. You can never please them well enough as they thought you would be. No. Just so you can attract guys attention? Just so you'll look good if you tryna lose weight by starvation? checking your weight each and every other days to see if you've reached your ''goals'' or ''expectations''. They are proper ways out there to lose weight or to look good right?
I'm not saying that its not wrong to do all these. I know its the only way for you. And you've got no choice.. But it pains me to see you guys had to do it the ''suffering'' way. Where you can do it the healthy way... And as for depression.... hah.
All of these depressions can just simply lead to doing self-harm. And I know that shit like that gonna happen cause I've done it before too. And I tell you, its not easy as you think when you're tryna handling them. Cause these depressions can really lead to dangerous and risky path. Where until instant deaths and suicidal thoughts can come in and attack you. It can happen anytime. And especially when you're at you're lowest. Even when you're at the point where your wires are ''tripped''. And playing with these depressing thoughts is not funny. Its scary. One minute you can only think to harm yourself. But if get's worse? Their most simple solution is to be dead. Nothing more to say. I'm in love with people who has been trying hard to stay alive in their lives. Fighting to end their pains and sorrows away desperately. How inspiring can they be? It took them alot of courage to do it. And also most importantly; patience. Where that is the key to every happiness. Some people keep asking me "how can you tolerate these types of problems so well?'' // ''how can you still be happy even though things are rough for you?'' // ''How can you stay up strong as ever as days goes by despite all the challenges?'' And all I answer was;
Patience and Positive thinking.
These are the most important thing that you'll ever need in your life. Nothing more. All is simple. But it takes alot of thinking and hardships to be patient all times. A lot of people step on our heads and make use of them and go happy. And worse? Act like nothing happened. How did I managed to stay off strong? Just simply put yourself in others shoes. Be patient always. Don't keep looking on the pain that people have caused you.Think about the consequences. Everything happens for a reason. And also, there's karma who can do the job for you. What goes around comes around. You don't have to go around taking revenge on people. Weak people revenge. Strong people forgive. Intelligent people ignore. Plus, its not worth it. Why hurt others where in the end you'll hurt yourself instead? right?
And lastly, be forgiving. Its okay that we forgive alot to people. Cause its better to be more forgiving. Rather than keeping hatred to each other. Till when? Think about the consequences too. Haha. Well, again I wanna thank you all for taking your time to read this; though its very long. But I appreciate it alot that you had the time. I hope it calms you down more with how I handle and tolerate stuffs on the last paragraph. I hope it taught you something or at least learn to takecare of other feelings. I'll go on a lil more detailed on Part 2 of this. I hope you guys can wait. I wanna turn in. Keep staying strong to those brave and strong souls out there! Goodnight and rest well bloggers :)
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